I'm writing this with a sense of loss ... because I have left Albania and I miss it a lot! I'm currently sitting in my favourite bar in Kotor, Montenegro, sipping on a Lav (pronounced 'love') which is the local beer and (finally) getting some internet. So time to get this blog up to date.
After Tirana, I travelled north to Shkoder (or Shkodra) which is close to the mountains, a lake and the border with Montenegro. I had booked a rather lovely apartment, right in the centre of town, that was very comfortable apart from the fact that your feet had to be in the shower if you sat on the toilet. Hmmmm! Shkoder has a big pedestrian area, lots of churches and even more mosques (it was the first time I have seen a lot of women wearing head scarves) and more coffee shops than anywhere else.
Shkoder's favourite ex-resident is/was Mother Theresa. There you go ... I never realised she was Albanian! When she was 18 she moved to Ireland, then India. There was a very sad story that she asked baddy Enver Hoxha if she could come and visit her dying mother. He said no (this was when the borders were closed). Eventually she was allowed to return to Albania, where she put flowers on her mother's and sister's graves and prayed for them. Then she did the same for Hoxha's grave!!! Now that's a saint!
I mentioned in the last post that I visited the Site of Witness and Memory. I think that Albania is to be commended for their commitment to truth-telling and I am often surprised at how many visitors to these museums and memorials are locals. The emphasis of understanding why the atrocities occurred and the determination that they are never going to happen again is admirable. It makes me wonder why we Australians seem so reluctant to embrace this with regards to First Nations peoples.
I was itching to get out into the countryside (I'm really not a city person) so I booked a bus out to Komani Lake, where I was going to take a tour up the Shala River. It was meant to be drop dead gorgeous with opportunities to swim in the crystal clear waters and to hike up into the mountains. It didn't quite work out that way ... I'm just lucky I didn't wear shorts!
It's funny how adversity binds you together. I am now very good friends with the Albanian couple now living in Manchester, the German girl who was going home, the poor Japanese couple (I think they were on their honeymoon) who were wearing shorts and the father and son from Egypt (he liked my scarf). We were COLD! And WET! And UNCOMFORTABLE! Aaahhhh, but how we laughed!
We got to the Shala River but it was now really raining and the path up the mountain was treacherous and there wasn't a hope in hell that anyone was going swimming, so we sat in a restaurant and ate overpriced food and talked about our travels. Meanwhile, the deck chairs and beach umbrellas sagged in the rain.
The next morning, I packed, put my feet in the shower for the last time, and caught a bus to Kotor, Montenegro.
But I'm missing Albania already. I'm missing its coffee shops, filled with shy but welcoming men. I'm missing the huge grins and the offers of help. I'm missing the feeling that people are so glad I came. I'm missing the beautiful food. I'm missing the lack of tourists. I'm missing the reasonable price of everything. I'm missing the relaxed pace of life. If I could, I'd turn around now and go back. If I could, I'd go and live in Berat for a month. If I could ...
















































